I've been taking my last few weeks, days and moments before going back to work today to spend time with our little girl. To soak up every moment because she grows every day.
As my mother-in-law says, "my mom always said when you lay a baby down they grow."
And oh how this is true!
And oh how this is true!
So here is my recent article in our local newspaper Farm Indiana.
I'll write again soon but I've been enjoying the moments in-between her growth spurts.
I woke-up on a recent morning to the sounds of the evening crickets and the morning birds. I had never really heard that sound before, the sound in-between the night and the morning, probably because I have always been asleep at that time. However, with the arrival of our first born, the moments I found myself in lately are in-between a lot of different things.
When I was little, we played in the woods a lot and made up various names for the rolling hills and valleys behind my childhood home. We had to set-up different forts just in case we got too tired and had to rest along our treks on our various adventures. The life of a child in-between reality and imagination is so charming, yet we forget to let them have those moments.
I live a life in the country but work in the city and the time I found myself in-between the two places is the time I take to reflect on my passion for both where I live and what I do. It’s a time where I try to remember where I came from while I’m trying to get to where I’m going. However, many times I am so rushed that I forget the moments in-between the two places are treasured. I need to remember when my wheels are rubbing the pavement, my thoughts are only my own.
And now that we have our first little baby, I am really trying to slow down because the moments I find myself in-between are too precious to let go and forget. I’ve found motherhood to be a lot more calming than I realized because it has taught me to slow down, relax and just be. I have to sit down for a good portion of the day to feed my child and after I do that I just want to watch her. Her eyelashes grow longer overnight and each time I pick her up I think her legs are chubbier than before. The nursing, trying to eat with my non-dominant hand, changing diapers, keeping us with the daily news and communication with friends and taking care of myself is exhausting, but the moments in-between are worth every minute of it. She changes daily and if I don’t slow down and pay attention, the moments will be lost forever.
As a farmer’s wife, I live in-between seasons and each one brings its challenges and its thrills. From the outside, it may seem like the planting and harvest are the only seasons a farmer works. And yet it’s in-between those moments that farmers take time to reflect on the past and work towards the future along with doing all the other chores you may not see. It’s a time they may stop rubbing the pavement and dirt to have a little adventure and slow down to reflect and care for themselves and their land for the next generation of young farmers. And during those moments, I bet they still wake-up to hear the crickets and the birds. I hope you take a moment to hear them too.